A recent TikTok video by user @muaandgroomingmelaka has sparked a conversation about open house etiquette during Hari Raya.
The video offers a glimpse into Dekwan’s home in Melaka, festively decorated and brimming with food – a classic scene of Raya hospitality.
However, the caption takes a surprising turn: “No one showed up.”
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Dekwan also reveals in the video and in a follow-up interview with World Of Buzz that following a Ramadan meal with a big gathering of friends, he decided to organise an open house on Raya’s third day.
He meticulously planned the menu and spent the entire day cooking, wanting to ensure a warm and comfortable environment for his guests.
Unfortunately, as the day progressed, Dekwan’s optimism dwindled.
He received messages from several friends apologizing for having to cancel, but a significant portion simply never arrived or confirmed their attendance.
Despite the disappointment, Dekwan remained gracious, welcoming his few neighbors who dropped by and encouraging them to take leftover food home.
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Additionally, he emphasized the importance of clear communication in his parting advice:
“If you get invited to an event, always let the host know whether you’ll be attending.”
This viral video has ignited a discussion about open house etiquette, highlighting the time and effort hosts invest in preparing for guests.
It serves as a gentle reminder to be considerate and communicate clearly when responding to invitations.
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